9 to 12 Years Old

At this point in their development, children begin to seek more independence through social activities, their relationships at school and in the community. Their peers and personal appearance become more important to them, and risk-taking behavior increases.

This is a good time for your child to take more responsibility for his condition, including the consequences of bleeding episodes and their treatment. As a parent, review the signs and symptoms of a bleeding episode with your child to be sure he is up to the task. If your child hasn’t done so already, he should begin learning self-infusion and maintaining log records. Continue to stress the importance of safety, but encourage his participation in reasonable activities and sports. In addition, work on an exercise program for your child that involves stretching and strengthening muscles. Due to your child’s growth, he will need to keep muscles flexible to help prevent bleeding episodes. Finally, as many would advise, talk with your child about the dangers of drugs, smoking and alcohol.

We are now entering the teen years, a difficult time for both parents and children. At this time in their lives, children exhibit more independent, risk-taking behavior and often feel that adults just don’t understand them.

Dental Care

Dental care is important at every age. See our dental care resources to find out what you need to know to keep your child's teeth in great shape.

Additional Resources

• Coram's Living with Hemophilia teleconference
• NHF transitions guidelines
• NHF Publications